Rob Hutters
Dating on the spectrum
We live in a world that wasn't designed for us to thrive in. Learn to create a new world for yourself so you can win at a different game. Dating doesn't have to be a source of dread. It can be fun, and deeply rewarding when you find the right person. I can help you get there.
What I offer
One-time
Bumble Profile Audit
Send me your profile screenshots. I send back a detailed video review within 3 working days. No call required, fully async.
- ✓Photo ranking and advice
- ✓Bio rewrite suggestions
- ✓Prompt rewrites tailored to you
- ✓Delivered as a Loom video
On a limited income? Reduced rate: €25 — one spot every 14 days, no questions asked.
Monthly, cancel anytime
Ongoing Coaching
For when you are getting likes but can't quite get to an actual date. Async messaging plus one 30-minute call per month.
- ✓Unlimited async messaging
- ✓I reply within 24 hours on weekdays
- ✓One 30-min video call per month
- ✓Conversation and date prep support
On a limited income? Reduced rate: €29/mo — one spot every 14 days, no questions asked.
How it works
What to expect
I know that not knowing what to expect makes things harder. Here is the exact process.
You pick an option and book directly on this page
Choose what fits. Payment is handled securely by Stripe.
I reach out within one working day
For the audit, I'll ask for your profile screenshots. For coaching, I'll send a short intake form.
We get to work
Audit clients receive their Loom review within 3 working days. Coaching clients get access to async messaging from day one.
You can stop whenever you want
Monthly coaching has no minimum commitment. Cancel any time, no explanation needed.
The basics
Anatomy of an amazing dating profile
Your profile is a marketing document. Most profiles fail because they focus on what the person is, not what life would be like with them. Here is the framework I use with every client.
Lead with your best photo
Your first photo determines whether she looks at the rest. It should highlight either a physical feature or a hobby. Professional or creative photos consistently outperform casual shots.
Write a bio with three parts
Think of your bio as a first introduction. It needs a hook (something that fits your personality and she will find relatable), conversation starters (things you like talking about), and a value proposition (what she gets when she dates you).
Use your prompts to tell a story
Use one prompt to talk about your values, and the other two to paint a picture of what life looks like with you. They should all point in the same direction.
It is a lot to get right on your own. That is what the audit is for. I apply this framework to your actual profile and tell you exactly what to change.
Get your profile auditedA real client
Yasin's story
Yasin came to me frustrated. He was doing everything he thought he should be doing and going nowhere. Here is what happened.
Yasin now knows exactly who he wants to date and has the confidence to go after it. That shift from dread to something that feels like fun is what coaching is for.
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Want to know more about how I think? Read my essay on how porn is reshaping male desire, or browse robhutters.com.